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Flirting with Thai girls isn’t that complicated when you know what you’re doing.
If it’s your first time dating a Thai girl, there are a few things you need to know that will save you a lot of time and help you avoid countless headaches.
With over a decade of experience helping guys flirt and date with the hottest girls in Thailand, we sure have a few tips for you.
Here’s what we recommend to improve your Thai flirting skills.
Dress The Part
In most tourist areas of Thailand, you can dress however you want and no one will judge you.
As long as you’re a tourist.
But if you want to make a good first impression on a Thai girl, dress accordingly.
Especially if you’re not on the beach or at a pool party.
If you look good, smell good and have a respectful attitude, you’ll get extra points right away.
Remember, you only get one chance to make a first impression.
Always remember that Thais love to live slowly.
You’ll often hear “sabai sabai” which means “take it easy” in English.
You don’t want to come across as too aggressive, too pushy, or too tactile.
Take it slow, take your time, give your date some space, and let her come closer when she feels more comfortable with you.
Being an alpha male who’s loud and physical may impress girls in some parts of the world, but it’s not to your advantage in Thailand.
Be charming, funny, respectful, and slow down a bit.
Remember, Sabai sabai.
Respect Her Culture
Talking about respecting her culture, we know you can have a strong culture shock when flirting with Thai girls.
Depending on how traditional her family is, and how much she’s been dating foreigners in the past, it can be a bit tough at first.
Be open to understanding the way she thinks and sees things.
There’s a lot to learn from other cultures, and the Thai one sure has a lot of advantages.
One thing you might notice right away is that most Thai girls don’t like to show affection in public.
It doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you, it’s just how people are in Thailand.
So keep flirting to a minimum in public, and keep your best moves for when you're alone together.
Find Common Interests
It’s always super important to find common interests with your date to get the conversation going and get to know each other.
But we know this can be hard when you both have a different culture and way of life.
Movies, series, activities, parties, travel, fashion, why not cryptocurrencies... Try to find things in common early on to get the conversation going and get to know each other better.
And if you can’t find anything interesting to talk about, you can always talk about food.
Talk About Food
Want to win your Thai date over? Treat her with good food.
For Thais, there’s nothing more important than food.
And it doesn’t have to be an expensive and fancy restaurant, any Thai food she likes will do.
This is a cheat code if you’re having trouble finding something to talk about.
Talking about food is always a good trick with Thais.
Ask your flirt about her favorite Thai dish, her favorite dessert, her favorite restaurant, what kind of cuisine she’s tried, and you’ll have her talking for days.
Speak Some Thai
You don’t have to be fluent in Thai to flirt with Thai girls, but if you make the effort to learn a few basic words and phrases, you’ll go a long way.
We all love it when foreigners try to speak our language, the same goes for Thai girls.
She’ll always appreciate it if you attempt to understand her country and culture.
And that sets you apart from the 95% of tourists and foreigners who don’t care and can't speak Thai passed Sawadee khap (hello) and Kop khun khap (thank you).
Start these phrases to see if she’s open to flirting with you:
Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? - mii faaen yang? (มีแฟนยัง)
No girl likes a guy who takes himself too seriously, especially Thai girls.
Being mysterious and playing hard to get might work for you back home. It won’t give you any edge in Thailand.
Try to be the cool guy instead.
That's one of our top dating tips, and it's true for flirting too.
Make jokes, laugh at her jokes (this is really important), play (drinking) games with her, sing karaoke if that’s your thing, or at least take her to a karaoke.
Thai girls love to have fun, and if you’re the charming and funny type, you’ll definitely score points.
Come to the club to have fun with our beautiful party models, and you’ll get an idea of what we’re talking about.
Thai girls love to take selfies in any situation, whether it’s at home, at the club, at a restaurant, a cafe, or wherever they travel.
If you see her pull out her phone to take a picture, ask her if you can be in the photo.
That way, she’ll think of you the next time she opens her phone, and it’s a good way to ask for her Line ID.
“Can you please send me the photo?”
That’s a sweet move.
Get Her Line ID
Without Line, there’s no flirting or dating in Thailand.
Line is the most popular messaging app in Thailand and a must have app when you’re visiting the country.
Her Line ID is the key to add her in the app and have the possibility to call and message her in the future.
So get her Line ID.
mii Line ID mai?
Lead The Way
Most types of Thai women love independent men who know what they want and who can take the initiative.
Make the first move, ask her out on a date, on a trip, offer to spend time with her when she has a day off.
Don’t always wait for her to propose things to do.
Pimping is a way of life.
Learn Thai Flirting At The PIMP
You don’t have to jump on a free Thai dating site to practice flirting when we have hundreds of Thai girls at The PIMP Bangkok.
Every night we have more single girls waiting to flirt with you than any other club in Bangkok. Test your skills and show them how good your game is.
Chances are you can also learn a thing or two about Thai flirting from our PIMP Cats.
Book your VIP table or private room now to party with them tonight.